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A conversation with Sara Mazzei, owner and creative director of InfinityWeddings & SM Event Creation

Sara Mazzei, luxury wedding planner in Italy

How everything began?

My career began in the world of art and design, where I developed a deep appreciation for visual language, spatial composition and the power of storytelling through form and detail. This foundation shaped my approach to event design: experiences must not only look beautiful but feel meaningful and authentic.

Driven by a passion for crafting memorable atmospheres, I entered the world of weddings and private events in the early 2000s with the brand Infinity Weddings, that after 20 years, I can say that is one of Italy’s most recognized destination luxury wedding planning companies.

During these years, I worked with international couples from the US, Europe, the Middle East, and Asia, delivering destination weddings that blended Italian elegance with global influences.

Ten years ago, I founded SM Event Creation, a company based in Zürich, focused on private events like weddings and birthdays but also corporate events in Europe.

We operate in Switzerland, France, Spain, Portugal, Turkey and Middle East.

Today, the two companies work as a full-service production company, bringing together a structured team of designers, planners and project managers.

With over twenty years of experience in producing complex events across Europe, we manage every phase, from creative direction to execution, ensuring that each celebration feels both highly curated and effortlessly delivered.

What defines your strength as a company today?

What defines us today is the ability to combine creative direction with production expertise.

Design alone is not enough to deliver a truly exceptional event. It requires structure, experience and a team capable of managing complexity without compromising the guest experience. Over the past twenty years, we have developed a solid production framework that allows us to work across different countries, cultures and scales, always maintaining the same level of attention, discretion and quality.

 

What are the key milestones or achievements you are most proud of as a founder and company?

One of the achievements I am most proud of is the high-end word-of-mouth network we have built over the years. Today, more than 80% of our revenue comes directly from personal referrals. Working closely with influential families and leading entrepreneurs from around the world, across Switzerland, Italy, the United States, and the Middle East, has allowed us to create lasting relationships based on trust, discretion and excellence.

This consistent level of service has shaped a reputation that goes far beyond social media presence. It is a reputation built through private recommendations, authentic client experiences and the confidence of those who value quality, privacy and substance above visibility. For me, this trust is the company’s greatest milestone.

Can you share more about what inspires you when creating events and how that inspiration shapes the experiences you deliver?

My inspiration always begins with the guest. When I design an event, I see it as a tribute to the people who will experience it.

I start by imagining what they would love to feel from the very first moment, how they are welcomed, the rhythm of the evening, the atmosphere created by lighting, music and food.

Every detail contributes to the emotional journey we want them to live.

Décor is an important element, of course, but for me it remains the frame, not the essence. The heart of a memorable event lies in the immersive experience we create for the guests.

They will remember the cadence, the hospitality, the seamless service and the style we communicated beyond the flowers and visual components. Inspiration, therefore, comes from crafting moments that make people feel seen, cared for, and completely immersed in a world designed just for them.

 

Please share any additional information that you feel is important for us to know to best understand you as well as your brand. 

What is most important to understand about me and my brand is that our work is built on discretion, authenticity and a deeply guest-centered philosophy.

We design events that go beyond aesthetics; our focus is always on crafting an immersive experience where every detail, service, rhythm, hospitality, atmosphere come together to create meaningful moments.

Over the years, we have earned the trust of influential families across Europe, the United States, and the Middle East, not through visibility, but through high-end word of mouth, which reflects the values at the heart of our brand: privacy, excellence, and genuine care for our clients.

In essence, our brand is a promise: to make every event not only unforgettable, but truly felt.

Sara Mazzei, wedding planner in Italy

What does luxury mean to you today?

Luxury today is not about excess. It is about time, intention and ease. True luxury is the ability to experience a celebration without friction, where every detail feels natural, never forced.

Today, the real luxury is culture: the ability to work with deep respect for the history of a place, its traditions and the art that surrounds it. Culture is the truest form of elegance, something that cannot be bought at a low price, but is instead the result of a continuous process of knowledge, sensitivity and awareness.

For our clients, luxury also means trust. Trusting a team that can design an experience that feels effortless yet unforgettable. Our clients love to celebrate, and they rely on our expertise to create extraordinary events where every moment is thoughtfully curated and every guest is genuinely impressed.

Entertainment seems to play a central role in your weddings. Why is that?

Because entertainment sets the tone. It creates connection, emotion and energy. A wedding should feel alive. Whether it is a band, a DJ, a performance or a carefully curated musical journey across several days, entertainment is what transforms a beautiful event into an unforgettable experience. We design it with the same care and intention as every other element.

We also invest constantly in research: we travel, experience events and visit clubs around the world to understand emerging trends and the most innovative creative directions. This allows us to bring fresh energy and a global perspective to every celebration, while always tailoring it to our clients.

What kind of families do you feel most aligned with?

We naturally align with families who value substance over appearance. Those who are not interested in staging an event for social media, but in creating a meaningful celebration for their closest circle. Families who appreciate discretion, good taste, culture and joy and who see a wedding as a moment to bring people together, rather than to impress.

 

Privacy is often a key concern for many families. How do you address this aspect?

Privacy is not a service we offer: it is a principle we work by. Many of our clients value discretion as much as beauty and experience.

For this reason, we carefully select venues that allow for privacy, manage guest flows with attention and work with trusted partners who understand the importance of confidentiality. We never design celebrations with exposure in mind. What happens during our events remains within the circle of those who are meant to experience them.

 

You are known for a very discreet approach to communication. Why is that important to you?

Discretion is a conscious choice. We do not publish images of brides or guests unless we are explicitly invited to do so by the family. Many of our clients value the freedom of celebrating without feeling observed or exposed. When a bride asks us to share her wedding, we are pleased to do so, but only then. For us, privacy is part of the luxury experience.

Sara Mazzei, owner and founder of InfinityWeddings and SM Event Creation

Looking back, which events have marked key moments in your evolution as a planner?

It’s a beautiful question. There have been many defining moments along the way. In every career, there are what I like to call “sliding doors moments”, those pivotal experiences that quietly, yet profoundly, shape your direction. You don’t only recognize them in hindsight; often, you can feel their significance as you are living them.

I think of a remarkable wedding for a German family set in the Tuscan countryside (450 guests and an entire month of production, with considerable challenges to overcome). Or the wedding of a Swiss entrepreneur, where, just one month prior, we still had no confirmed venue due to a series of complex circumstances.

Then there was the bride who called me just three weeks before her wedding in Capri (an entire celebration to be conceived and delivered in such a short time). A major event in Seville marked another turning point, as did a stunning winter wedding in Sankt Moritz, surrounded by snow.

Each of these experiences involved large-scale productions, often with 200 to 300 guests or more. The list could go on, perhaps because I live every moment with intensity and a deep awareness that every opportunity carries meaning. It requires a certain willingness to seek that meaning, and the patience to truly understand it. Nothing, after all, happens by chance.

 

Can you share a memorable moment from one of your events that still makes you laugh, and another that was particularly difficult?

I’ll share a story that, at the time, brought me to tears and ultimately, to laughter.

It was a wedding in Verona with over 200 guests. The concept, both in terms of entertainment and overall flow, was exceptionally refined. As always, we had prepared a plan B, securing a marquee in case of bad weather. The idea was to make a final decision two days before, based on the forecast. The family, reassured by the predictions, chose not to install the structure.

On the morning of the wedding, however, dark clouds gathered above us. The tension of those hours is difficult to describe, holding onto the hope that they would simply pass. Instead, just thirty minutes before guests were due to arrive, a storm unlike any I had ever seen broke out.

We rushed to protect everything, doing our utmost to safeguard the technical setup, while hosting the guests inside the villa, hoping the rain would subside.

For the first (and, fortunately, only) time in twenty years, I locked myself in a bathroom and cried. There were no alternatives: either the rain would stop, or the entire celebration would be compromised. Two intense minutes of tears, and then, like an actor stepping back onto the stage, I told myself: the show must go on. Somehow, we would make it happen.

We extended the aperitif slightly, and at last, the rain eased. Yet the forecast warned it would return within three hours. At that point, I advised the family to accelerate everything: a four-hour programme had to be condensed into just two and a half hours, ensuring guests would remain sheltered.

What followed were two incredibly intense hours of coordination (kitchen, performers, lighting), all moving in perfect synchrony. And in the end, the compliments were overwhelming. That was the moment I finally allowed myself to laugh.

Even now, I can still recall the tension of that evening. Life, after all, has a way of making us laugh and cry over the very same moments.

 

What advice would you give to someone who wants to enter this industry?

Advice is always a delicate matter: everyone must find their own path. If anything, I would offer a reflection on education. Today, there are countless courses available, but in truth, much of what they teach can be learned in six months within a well-structured agency.

Instead, I would encourage aspiring planners to invest in their cultural foundation: study art history, explore culinary traditions, perhaps undertake a sommelier course. Cultivating oneself opens the door to worlds rooted in substance and depth and ultimately enhances one’s credibility.

 

You are known for your discretion, and you tend to stay behind the scenes. What qualities have enabled you to build what you have today?

This is perhaps the most difficult question of all and one I have often reflected upon.

If I had to identify a defining quality, it would be perseverance. It is what I rely on whenever I am faced with challenges or complex projects. I never assume I will succeed because of any extraordinary talent; rather, I find confidence in my consistency, in my resilience, in the ability to keep moving forward.

Over the years, it is this quiet determination that has allowed the brands to grow and evolve.

 

In between the grandeur of celebrations, what are the small, personal luxuries you cannot live without?

There are a few rituals I consider entirely my own: small, essential moments that bring me back to myself.

Time outdoors is one of them. I love walking at a fast pace, whether along a lake, in the mountains, or through the quiet streets of a beautiful city at dawn, often in between events or early appointments. There is a particular stillness in those hours, a sense of clarity that I find deeply grounding.

Equally important are the people I hold close: friends and loved ones who remain a constant, a safe harbour amidst the intensity and demands of my work.

And then, there is the rare pleasure of being a guest. To attend a beautiful celebration and finally experience the magic from the other side is, in itself, a quiet luxury.

And perhaps my most personal indulgence: every now and then, I allow myself a moment of complete solitude: a cigar, silence, and time standing still. My own, intimate idea of luxury!

We work with a limited number of celebrations each year.
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